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The Danger of Comparing

20th December 2009 by Hellie

As a mum or I guess as a parent you end up whether you like it or not comparing your child to others. It start with those charts and graphs, then the other babies at the health centre, your own mother will tell you how you compared to your own baby and so on and so on. Tycho was very small for the first 4 months or so, but from 6 months he has grown and grown and grown. Now he is just about 8 months and he is already in 9-12 clothes. People keep on telling me he is huge. One other mother even referred to him as enormous, her own boy is about 4 months older than Tycho and is smaller. I still think Tycho is a lovely boy big or tiny. But there is some hidden or in some cases not very well hidden competitiveness in all babies do, weigh, eat etc etc. (more…)